A couple of days ago I over heard some people talking about relationships and one of them said she couldn't date someone because he was 10 years older than her. I don't know where you all stand on this but my stance is so what if there is an age gap. To me age is but a number of experience. The way I see it is if you are in a relationship whether there is a significant age gap or not there must be some feelings of love, so ask yourself these questions does this person bring you happiness? Does this person bring you joy? Does this person thrill you? Does this person excite you? Does this person make u smile? Does this person love you like you love them? If you answer yes to all of them then who cares if there is an age gap or not.
S was 17 yrs my senior and did it bother us? No. Whenever we were out together we'd hold hands, we'd have our arm around each other we'd kiss and flirt with each other. Yes some people used to look but who are they to judge? How is there opinion going to change us? We're we in love hell yes, did we feel all the above? Yes and then some.
Poly on the other hand was the same age as me when we were out together did we hold hands. Did we flirt with each other? Did we kiss in public? No. If people saw us out they would have more than likely thought we were friends rather than a couple. Why did we marry then you may ask. See previous posts. Sad I know but .......
So out of the two relationships it doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out which I'd rather.
S and I were so crazy in love. I've said it once and I'll say it a thousand times S was my one, my lightening bolt of love. She was in my dreams and my every waking thought. I used to battle with myself daily trying not to text her call her to say good morning before she woke. I never would have thought I love like this could have existed but it does our feelings ran true and so deep. Did S bring me happiness and joy? Did S excite and thrill me? Did S love me like I loved her? YES YES YES and then some, S was my everything. Even other people noticed this. My mom got a 2 identical photo frames for Christmas in one she wanted a picture of each of her grand kids and in the other she wanted a picture of her children and there partners. Did she ask for one of poly ( the mother of her grand kids ) and I? No She asked if she could put S and I in there. To me that speaks volumes.
So back to the original thought can you date someone with an age gap? YES YOU CAN, and who cares what anyone else thinks!
" DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, LIFE IS TOO SHORT "
S was 17 yrs my senior and did it bother us? No. Whenever we were out together we'd hold hands, we'd have our arm around each other we'd kiss and flirt with each other. Yes some people used to look but who are they to judge? How is there opinion going to change us? We're we in love hell yes, did we feel all the above? Yes and then some.
Poly on the other hand was the same age as me when we were out together did we hold hands. Did we flirt with each other? Did we kiss in public? No. If people saw us out they would have more than likely thought we were friends rather than a couple. Why did we marry then you may ask. See previous posts. Sad I know but .......
So out of the two relationships it doesn't take a rocket scientist to work out which I'd rather.
S and I were so crazy in love. I've said it once and I'll say it a thousand times S was my one, my lightening bolt of love. She was in my dreams and my every waking thought. I used to battle with myself daily trying not to text her call her to say good morning before she woke. I never would have thought I love like this could have existed but it does our feelings ran true and so deep. Did S bring me happiness and joy? Did S excite and thrill me? Did S love me like I loved her? YES YES YES and then some, S was my everything. Even other people noticed this. My mom got a 2 identical photo frames for Christmas in one she wanted a picture of each of her grand kids and in the other she wanted a picture of her children and there partners. Did she ask for one of poly ( the mother of her grand kids ) and I? No She asked if she could put S and I in there. To me that speaks volumes.
So back to the original thought can you date someone with an age gap? YES YOU CAN, and who cares what anyone else thinks!
" DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, LIFE IS TOO SHORT "
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