As you'll come to know I am one if not the least superstitious person ever? Today is one reason why, Friday the 13 bad things are meant to happen right? Well I had a pretty good day tbh.
It was my first appointment with the councillor. I have a female councillor not that it makes ant difference what so ever I just talk to women easier than I do men. I think it must be my alpha male gene don't show emotion to another male. We spoke for about 40 mins I dumped everything on this poor woman but hey that's why I was there right? She asked and I was brutally honest. Why was I there? My insecurities from my childhood, my joke of a marriage, almost losing my twins minis, the hells of divorce, S my love and loss of her and the list goes on. She asked about sleep, I had to explain I I'm one of the founding members of the 5 hour and less sleep club. It is slowly improving because at one stage I got down to less than an hour a night. The only thing I can put this down to is it started when S and I were not able to say goodnight to each other. Yes I still say goodnight to her along with a couple of other dear friends. So more often than not now it's around 5 hrs which is ok with me, I can deal with 5 hrs. We spoke some more about personal and confidential stuff I cried somewhat, but she said its ok to cry, it's ok to be angry and on the flip side it's ok to laugh and smile and it's ok to be happy and I need to allow and give myself permission to feel this again. She gave me booklets to read and all in all I'm not completely crazy just yet so I'm good. Then it was to the masseuse because I hurt my back yesterday moving a combi oven at work. I see her so infrequently I should be ashamed but in my defence I am very good friends with who I'd consider to be the best therapists ever it's not quite the same but I'm just not quite at the stage I can justify 14 hrs on a plane to go see her regularly. Don't get me wrong my therapist is great at what she does but Mama D is the best. She worked on me and as always it helps. My body has a few creeks and cracks from my been ever so slightly reckless in my younger years, so I made the conscious decision to make it a regular thing.
Then someone who I consider a very close friend of mine got some amazing news that she had been waiting sometime for. It's not my place to speak of other people personal lives, but I can say she is a wonderful woman that so deserves this and I'm so happy for you A.
So if that's a Friday 13th I wish every Friday was the 13th
It was my first appointment with the councillor. I have a female councillor not that it makes ant difference what so ever I just talk to women easier than I do men. I think it must be my alpha male gene don't show emotion to another male. We spoke for about 40 mins I dumped everything on this poor woman but hey that's why I was there right? She asked and I was brutally honest. Why was I there? My insecurities from my childhood, my joke of a marriage, almost losing my twins minis, the hells of divorce, S my love and loss of her and the list goes on. She asked about sleep, I had to explain I I'm one of the founding members of the 5 hour and less sleep club. It is slowly improving because at one stage I got down to less than an hour a night. The only thing I can put this down to is it started when S and I were not able to say goodnight to each other. Yes I still say goodnight to her along with a couple of other dear friends. So more often than not now it's around 5 hrs which is ok with me, I can deal with 5 hrs. We spoke some more about personal and confidential stuff I cried somewhat, but she said its ok to cry, it's ok to be angry and on the flip side it's ok to laugh and smile and it's ok to be happy and I need to allow and give myself permission to feel this again. She gave me booklets to read and all in all I'm not completely crazy just yet so I'm good. Then it was to the masseuse because I hurt my back yesterday moving a combi oven at work. I see her so infrequently I should be ashamed but in my defence I am very good friends with who I'd consider to be the best therapists ever it's not quite the same but I'm just not quite at the stage I can justify 14 hrs on a plane to go see her regularly. Don't get me wrong my therapist is great at what she does but Mama D is the best. She worked on me and as always it helps. My body has a few creeks and cracks from my been ever so slightly reckless in my younger years, so I made the conscious decision to make it a regular thing.
Then someone who I consider a very close friend of mine got some amazing news that she had been waiting sometime for. It's not my place to speak of other people personal lives, but I can say she is a wonderful woman that so deserves this and I'm so happy for you A.
So if that's a Friday 13th I wish every Friday was the 13th
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